If you are reading this page,
you probably think your son or daughter might be highly sensitive.
Most infants and children are not bothered by what you feed
them, by loud noises from the stereo or the television, or
by harsh lights, but highly sensitive infants and children
seem to notice every small change in their food, loud noises
startle them and bright lights might make them uncomfortable
to the point of crying.
When they get older, usually they become emotionally sensitive
too. They get very easily overwhelmed by stressful situations,
they worry more and they cry easily when their feelings are
hurt. Also, they worry more and they are usually very cautious
before taking a decision ore before jumping in. To many they
may seem shy or afraid when they are merely observing. The
slightly older sensitive child might stand out as an extremely
kind human being, who gets upset by injustice, cruelty or
irresponsibility.
Many things can be said about highly sensitive children, and
no description will give an exact character image of your
child. Every child is unique as a result of a unique combination
of inherited traits, different upbringing and school experiences.
Your highly sensitive child may be extroverted or a loner,
persistent or easily distracted, controlling and difficult
to please or extremely easy to handle.
High sensitivity is found in 15 – 20% of children,
in boys and girls alike. It is no unusual to find that one
of the parents is also a highly sensitive person, as it seems
to be an inherited trait.
As coach and highly sensitive person, I invite you to explore
the subject of high sensitivity together. We can talk about
the specific challenges your child is facing, and about how
you can help him or her to stand stronger within himself.
We’ll look at how he can be helped to embrace his sensitivity
and not feel so easily overwhelmed in a not very sensitive
world. Remember, being highly sensitive is a gift, and having
a highly sensitive child might not always be easy, but it
is a blessing. I’d very much like to help your child
to blossom and thrive, and to become a healthy, loving, well-adjusted
and happy being.
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